
By TiffanyCox, LMT
You’ve been a Professional Massage Therapist for 5 years now, so you should pretty much have it all down, right?
You do? You just might be the only one!
I have met therapists in their second and third decades of therapy and still not sure what type of massage they wanted to specialize in! One of the most amazing and thrilling aspects to this division of health and wellness is that you will (hopefully) never stop learning and growing.
I’ve personally had about a dozen “favorite” massage techniques, and I haven’t yet reached decade number one! I hope I never see the day I think I’ve “learned it all,” because ours is a profession built on specialized adaptation and transformation. My single most important goal in school, and even today and beyond, is to never give the same massage twice ~ not even to the same person, no matter how many times they’ve visited my table.
We’ve all been to that hair stylist that gives everyone the same cut, or the doctor who prescribes the same fix to all his patients…try not to force yourself into a pattern or routine, and your inherent talents and interests will surface as you allow yourself to improvise.
Long ago in another career life, I was required to be extremely analytical, logical and left-brained. When I became a Massage Therapist, those skills and tendencies lingered in my professional perspective.
My first massage venture was in a clinical setting, and, oh my!, was my inner-German happy! I thought I’d found my “True Calling” ~ cue the dramatic choir of singing angels and the blinding golden light of harps and halos! I thought working with injured and chronically-ailing patients was the end-all to my professional search for fulfillment, and I would never find anything more satisfying as long as I lived. I was thankfully very mistaken!
At first I was uncomfortable with the thought of changing my mind about something I’d thought to be such a fundamental part of my identity as a therapist, but as I developed, I began to understand that being malleable and receptive is exactly what perpetuates development.
I have since enjoyed countless flings with techniques as diverse as my client base, adopting 5,000-year-old energy-based therapies and marrying them with cutting-edge sports therapy techniques while simultaneously performing bio-feedback!
While working for a chiropractor, I never thought I’d work in a spa setting, but then I chose to leave the doctor’s office for one of the most exclusive spas in town. I learned steams, wraps, and scrubs of such epic pampering-proportions I’d go home swooning in bliss! Incidentally, learning to make someone feel like they’ve left the mother-ship for 90 minutes is truly an art-form of which to be stunningly proud.
When I was offered a position in a 5-star resort spa that enticed me with the prospect to incorporate my clinical skills with my newly-discovered luxury repertoire, the angels started screeching once again!
Regardless of how many times I fall in love with one therapy technique or another, the intensity and value of each affair is in no way diminished by the next fascination. My willingness to be courted and captivated by a diverse palate of modalities is what has made me a commodity in our profession.
One of my favorite philosophers, Robert Anton Wilson, authored and adhered to a lifestyle of what he detailed as “Maybe Logic.” Through a series of frustrating and challenging personal episodes, he learned that maybe he really didn’t know all there was to know about life, the universe and everything in it, even though his ego was persistently suggesting otherwise.
As the seed of my work has developed within me, it has become increasingly natural to view the unknown in this way and for exactly what it is ~ limitless potential.
Being inherently human I, of course, continue to rely on my past experiences to deliver favorable results, but I don’t walk around in a semi-conscious coma of ignorance, expecting all my encounters to swoop me off my feet, either.
I have learned to embrace what all of us are trying so fervently to obtain at every level of existence ~ homeostasis, the balance between what is inside in relation to what is outside. Push to a pull, wax for the wane, ebb from a flow, Yin within Yang…define it how you choose, they are all the same.
By embracing the fluidity and transience of my work, I have discovered my true gifts. Inspiring coexistence of my interests has consistently encouraged the emergence of the most effective and relevant approach by means of necessity.
I’ve posed demanding questions to myself, and expected substantial answers in return. I’ve opened myself to change, even at the most fundamental levels, never being so intimidated by the unknown that I miss out on its immeasurable opportunities. I’ve foremost not allowed myself to become “comfortable” in my knowledge, always seeking validation in truth and results.
Being true to yourself doesn’t mean having one opinion and never modifying your perspective. Being true to your true self means having the courage to be the best version of that self by discovery through a perpetual progression in your knowledge, experience, and fulfillment.
And when all these elements converge within you, the understanding of your purpose and direction will bring everything into precise and absolute focus.

We live in an age where gender in the workplace has become less and less of an issue. Some of this is based on legislation which prevents discrimination but much of the advances are due to changing attitudes regarding gender. There are generally less hangups and prejudices among the general population. But when it comes to massage therapy, gender can be an issue.
We have added a profile and questionnaire response to our main website for
We have to admit that we struggled for a few minutes about choosing an appropriate title for today’s blog. Two reasons: a massage session lasts an hour, so when people come out of the massage room feeling re-invigorated and more optimistic about the future, it’s really the 60 minutes spent under the healing hands of a massage therapist that make the difference. But the intention for this blog was to describe “a day in the life of a massage therapist” type of story so we can give new students and graduates of massage therapy a peek into what their days will be like after massage school.
Overheard in a downtown cafe one day:
Carl Sandburg had a beautiful quote about babies. People say it many times and no doubt is written on congratulatory cards for new parents. He said, “a baby is God’s opinion that the world should go on.” If you have an enduring love for babies, you can help them develop through the magic of touch and gentle massage. You’ll be filled with pride knowing that the baby you’re touching will turn into a physically and emotionally balanced human being.
By Courtney Slivka, LMT
By Courtney Slivka